Here goes a story on the funny-while-at-the-same-time-frustrating side of parenting. When you finish reading, you'll be thankful that this post is not accompanied by pics.
Football season has begun so Sundays in our house consist of Matt & Mark shouting at the Lions and making all sorts of comments at the
tv. I enjoy this tradition (don’t tell the guys that), but I also like to get out of the house as I can only take so much football. So, on Sunday
Yia Yia and I took the kids to the park for a little escape and energy release. Things went well at park #1. Cassie got to swing which always makes her happy. Linc played on every available piece of equipment, aside from the
spinny merry-go-round thing that was packed with kids. As an adult, I can’t stand those things though I do recall thoroughly enjoying them as a kid. I will let Linc enjoy it when he’s big enough to do it on his own. I can’t throw him on it now and spin him around because the act of having to watch the thing spin makes me want to puke.
I digress…
We had used all of the equipment at park #1 and decided to go to another park since we had some time on our hands. I knew in my mind that it was time for a potty break and told Linc as much on the drive to park #2. As soon as we got to the park, though, he ran over to the first climber he could find. He proceeded to climb on a monkey bar-like thing, I look over and what do I see? A drizzle of pee streaming down his leg and down to the ground like a waterfall. My mom can see my blood boiling and tells me not to yell at him. "He's just a little boy", she says. Yes, but this little boy has been doing so great with potty stuff since he was 2 1/2. He's now over 3 and has regressed in the last month. I'm sure there's some psychological thing that's going on that I should know about. I'm sure I'm reacting all wrong to any accidents. A parent never seems to handle things properly. I need
Supernany to give me some advice or something. Anyway, I got Linc changed as he was very worried that I didn't have extra clothes for him. Ultimately, everyone played and all was fine, but mom was disappointed in her little boy because she knows he has the potty thing down pat in his mind. Me thinks he is just too headstrong sometimes.
I have even started a sticker chart for him at home and he gets to put a smiley on it for every accident-free day. Five stickers in a row = a new book or a special treat! So far, we have no new books or special treats in the house. Boo
hoo.
To sum this story up, park #2 has been dubbed the "pee pee park". Linc called it that this morning. It cracked me up, though I didn't let him see that because all I need is for my kid to say he wants to go to the "pee pee park" to play. Really, I'm trying to remember that this is small stuff and not to sweat it.
Speaking of sweating it...I pick the kids up from school today and immediately Linc starts disobeying me by running into the parking lot. He knows that he's not supposed to be in the parking lot or street without an adult. This kid is obstinate I tell you! We have a big talk about his behavior as soon as we get home. I think the majority of our talk went over his head though as his main concern was getting dinosaur fruit snacks before dinner! Then while I was making dinner, Linc was sitting on the couch and Cassie was standing up holding on to the couch practicing her standing skills. Somehow Linc "accidentally" kicked Cassie in the face and knocked her down. Linc goes straight to time out, I sweep Cassie up to make sure she's
ok, which, of course, she is because she seems to be pretty tough unlike her big brother. Meanwhile the spaghetti is boiling over, Cassie starts to fuss because she's hungry, and Linc is still crying in timeout. At this point, I had only been home from work for an hour. Happy Monday to me. By bedtime, though, this stuff all became small stuff when Linc gave me the best bedtime hug I've ever received. This kid isn't a super big
huggy person, but the bigger he gets, the better his hugs get. He wrapped his little arms around me so tightly that my eyes welled up with tears. A beautiful close to this Monday.